How does one succeed in life?
09.06.2025 02:13
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
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Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
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Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Procrastinates a lot.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What I need from you?
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Do not set goals—set systems.
Does not procrastinate.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
I have BPD. Why do I destroy everyone I love?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
That's it for today.
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Ask yourself:
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.